The call was a mistake and probably reduces your chances--but it wasn't as bad as the letter imho. I'm glad you didn't send the letter, recovered from your panic attack, and are up to posting again.
Originally Posted by JHopeful
I just want you to know that I screwed up and said and did some things that I shouldn't have done.
She replied: "Joe, you did nothing wrong, I'm just not in love. You deserve someone who loves you and so do I" (she has said this to me back in November.)
I replied: "Lish, I hear and respect what you are saying. I am not trying to convince you of anything.
I know I [censored] up.
I'm baffled. You said you goofed. She told you that you didn't. You said you hear and respect what she's saying but keep insist you goofed. So, what was this goof you feel ended things?
Originally Posted by JHopeful
I [censored] up last week. I used sex as a way of seeing if she was truly back in again. I was angry... I'm sorry that you felt sex was a contngentcey.
What did you do? I'm not sure if you asked her for sex, while in a kiss you put your hands places in sensitive spots to encourage it, or you actually convinced her to have sex when she wasn't into it. I'm being blunt. We can give better advice if we understand what's really going on in your relationship and breakup.
Originally Posted by JHopeful
She moved out in September and we share 50/50 custody of a 2 yr old baby girl.
