Originally Posted by 1stLove
Damn this is hard in the moment to know what to do. How do you differentiate between being nice and being a decent human being? Just being cold and short in answers just feels so not me - not only here but in general...

So 1st before I answer your question, please answer one for me first.

Why do you feel the need to be overly nice to a woman who has left you for the third time?