I think she is MLC and needs more time. She currently has the communication skills of Middle Schooler - this was a quote from S21. She has avoided tough conversations her whole life. It seems fruitless to have a counseling session on communication when she hasn’t been able to communicate effectively for years when the topic is sensitive.
She has only seen our sons 2 times since 4th of July and they have been here at the family home a lot due to COVID college schedules.
Maybe this will help. I guess it’s worth the time. Might give me an opportunity to validate W and the boys feelings.
Yeah no expectations.
Taz
M59 (53@BD) XW56 (50@BD) S26 (20@BD) S24 (19@BD) Married 25 (22@BD) Together 28 BD 9/29/19 (moved out unannounced while I was on fishing trip) W filed 10/19/20 (Informed me via text) D final 11/10/22