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[Taz]

Please help, I need some sage advice and all opinions are welcome.

S21 went to visit W tonight with the intention of convincing her to go see a therapist. He returned saying that she was in tears mainly over how S19 interacts with her. They were very close and the separation has turned him apathetic towards her. So S21 came home and said she is willing to have all of us meet with a family counselor to work on our family communication issues.

Is this a good idea? Are we even a family right now? Would a counselor even work with us in our current fractured state. I would be willing to go if it would help W’s relationship with the boys. I realize that this would not be MC or address any of those issues. Maybe I should just have her and the boys go.

I personally think that she needs IC first.

I don’t think she mentioned the divorce to S21 and I haven’t yet either.

Taz