Originally Posted by 1stLove
Originally Posted by Steve85


She has come back before because you wanted her to. She has to come back because SHE wants to. Otherwise, it will only be a matter of time before she moves out again.


Yeah, I just thought I could show that it is worth coming back. But yes, you are right. Let's see how the next weeks go, she will probably come here a few times to pick up stuff and I'll try to be busy doing other things (not easy in COVID times though).

Not by peacocking, but by living and being happy and interacting with women and going on adventures.

When she comes, you 100% are doing something fun, not "trying to be busy". One of those things is sad and unattractive while the other is uplifting and interesting.

Who knows, if you actually do this you may just find the person you're supposed to be with.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.