She has come back before because you wanted her to. She has to come back because SHE wants to. Otherwise, it will only be a matter of time before she moves out again.
Yeah, I just thought I could show that it is worth coming back. But yes, you are right. Let's see how the next weeks go, she will probably come here a few times to pick up stuff and I'll try to be busy doing other things (not easy in COVID times though).
I would suggest you ask her to come one time to get all of her stuff. No need to do it over a few times and weeks. In fact, you could even pack everything for her, and have it ready for her to pick up.
Yeah, I'll try that. But we are completely silent now and I don't want to be the one breaking the silence. Also it doesn't seem like she came home yesterday to pick up some of her stuff but she said that the time slot I said doesn't fit her that well.
I just still feel that this NC is pulling us apart and that it will be quite weird next time we meet in person - if that is in a month.
