Thanks gigi and LH!! Yes they are so much smarter and stronger (thankfully) than one thinks. We must support them no matter what! My kids believe it is a joint thing. “we fell out of love”. Eventually they will find out it was moms decision. I have however told them I wish it didn’t have to be this way and that I will miss them greatly. To be clear I tone those things down A LOT though, to be certain they don’t blame themselves in any way.
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Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021