One question I have is that thing about going dark: I was not fully emotional available to her in the last weeks, so I am wondering if showing affection is not actually better?
uuummm actually you are too emotionally available. So 1st she told you she feels like you are her brother. Would you want your sister being affectionate with you!
Originally Posted by 1stLove
She originally wanted to meet during the first weeks of S, but I said it is better to take a break due to the emotions involved after her moving out. She didn't like that at all, but accepted it.
Stop talking about your feeling and emotions. Say some thing like "I am too busy" or " I have plans" I understand the idea of NC and working on oneself rather than focusing on the other person, just wondering how the 180 view is on such a situation?[/quote] What?
