2) Steve85 - Is this the best advice to reconcile and the only chance? "That is why the advice to give them time and space is so important."
I am not an expert, MWD is the expert. And she calls it the Last Resort Technique. If you read about the LRT you'll see that your sitch is tailor made for it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018