One question I have is that thing about going dark: I was not fully emotional available to her in the last weeks, so I am wondering if showing affection is not actually better?
She originally wanted to meet during the first weeks of S, but I said it is better to take a break due to the emotions involved after her moving out. She didn't like that at all, but accepted it.
I understand the idea of NC and working on oneself rather than focusing on the other person, just wondering how the 180 view is on such a situation?
