The heart wants what the heart wants, I get that. However, I agree with your last statement. That is kind of the thinking I was speaking to. Are you guys "common law" married? Would you have to go through divorce proceedings to separate? If not, then that is what I was talking about. Most LBSs here have to deal with the legalities of D on top of the ending of their R and the loss of their S. If you do not have to deal with a D, then you are already half way there.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018