I commend you for seeing these things through with the VA and getting the help you need.
What I challenge you to do is to change the way you view what happened. It didn’t destroy your life it gave you a change at a great life. If you trust the process and focus on your kids and getting better I promise you that you will find a woman who cherishes you for who you are and what you bring to the table.
Any future that has your STBXW as your partner will be nothing but pain and misery.
The 2 things that keep LBS not getting what they want are not trusting the process and patience.
