Thanks OnlyBent!
How did you blew it up if you don't mind sharing - like just going to old habits and moving back together? Thats what I did the previous 2 times more or less, so probably similar.

One question I have, she is coming over to pick something up from the apartment today while I am not at home. I just got something from my dad in the post that she really loves (pumpkin seed oil) and was thinking to leave her a bottle with a note to enjoy it and make some nice salads.
Is this out of the zone - I have been quite distant in the last weeks of our relationship so just wondering if that would count as a 180?