WAW Hired a Divorce Coach (Cont5.)

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It was easy to give clear direct advice to him. Its a lot easier to see someone else's situation than your own. The feelings and emotions do create a fog - and for me the fog is thick.

YUP. PuppyDogTails would advise looking at your own sitch as if it was in a "Fish bowl". Can you detach enough from your sitch to look at it like one of us would?

I am sure we all went through some level of depression going through our sitch. You may want to conciser seeking professional help.

We all need some type of interactions to deal with loneliness. Right after I moved into my own place, I would go out to dinners alone and interact with the staff. Covid does throw a wrench into thigns like that for you. I still do daily drive through at the coffee shops. I get some interaction with people. It all depends on your risk tolerance. It is your choice on how you view your alone time. These days I have a hard time getting my alone time. Changing ones view of this is key. Can you view your alone time as a positive? Something you look forward to?



One of the biggest challenges is learning to interact with your W different. Behaving different. Since you have children together, you will have many opportunities.

Use this time wisely and become the best version of YOU.