But, all of this is a mute point outside of accepting my mistakes and learning from them. NOTHING is bringing him back.
If you truly believe and mean what you said here, this is good stuff.
Originally Posted by KitCat
You're right... there was brief moment that I just wanted that sweet revenge. Eh, I'm human. I'm not really worried about it and I frankly I highly doubt my SS21 said one word to his dad about anything because I'm just not a topic that comes up when they talk.
You are very easy to read. So have you given up on manipulation tactics?
Originally Posted by KitCat
Do I wish that STBXH could have gotten to a place where he would be curious about fixing our M - sure... because I think with the right tools it was all fixable. But, I'm no longer sitting over here waiting for that moment to happen. I've accepted it never will... which is why I'm trying to plow forward with my life though I know it appears I'm constantly tripping on legos!!!
I would say 90% of the marriages here are fixable when two people are willing to fix it. It's not that it never will. You are just not patient enough. Plowing through life and taking innocent people along for the ride.
