Originally Posted by KitCat
[quote=LH19]
Isn't dating just living my life --- letting go of STBXH and exploring the world and not focusing on my D or where my STBXH is?


Again.....this is like putting a miniature bandaid.....on a severed limb. Almost all of the advice you will find, here and elsewhere, is very clear that GAL IS NOT going out and dating other people. Now, it is completely up to you to decide whether you want to follow that advice. But exactly what happened with the pilot is why it is a bad idea.

By the way KC, I hope you have a very good 2021! I am sure you are happy to see 2020 in the rearview mirror. ONWARD and UPWARD!


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018