I just want to know where I'm at in this thing. I either want to move on and get on with my life - which I can do full steam ahead or Hang on. But hanging on without knowing where she is at is tough. I know she is confused. I know that as of right now she isn't happy and she is more miserable than she was.
There is no hanging on. You can have faith in the process. Apply the "stockdale paradox" to your current sitch. You are divorced.
That doesn't mean you have to latch onto another woman. The last thing you need right now is another woman to complicate your life. Take time to be content alone.
That doesn't mean you don't interact with women. Enjoy every interaction with every woman. You can practice new skills. Just do it without any intentions. Or at least the only intention is to make them feel good in your presence.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
