Thank you. I have been at this for way way way too long, lol.
Why are you hanging on to anything ? You are separated and headed to divorce right now. That is where you are. You can get on with your life full steam ahead.
But I’m afraid getting on with your life means dating? Do you really think you should be dating right now even if you knew for sure that it was over and done? Because I am pretty sure that would just lead to you in the same spot with a different woman until you work on your urges to make someone else’s life your priority and live for for them. Or to rescue. Or to do everything for them. Which I am sure your anxiety is what helps you lead to those behaviors.
Your life right now should look the same whether or not she might come back or not. It’s a great time either way to get to know yourself as an individual without another woman dictating your identity
