LH - I've never implied that I'm not wrong or never wrong.

Ginger - I'm just exploring this area --- I think I fit several of the criteria but not all. I will do more reading and looking inward and if I feel this may be me then I will work toward making more effort to resolve if this is true or not.

I think its a big step that I see that this might very well be me.

Thornton - Its not so much the fear of abandonment as its my reaction when it happens. No I do not split people into good and evil. But I'm very intense and I'm very impulsive....

IDK --- its all just a thought. I do know I'm not a narcissist. But, I'm willing to look into BPD.