We see you struggling. The “revelations” have some meat.. I see wheels turning. But then you update and we see you’re still snooping or talking about your ex-wife and want her back.
1. Your wife is not a good partner if you want a monogamous relationship, because she has lied and cheated on you 5-6x. Any likely path to stability and monogamy is solo or with someone else.
2. If she decides to use you as her safe spot between OM, the words she says doesn’t matter because she‘a a liar. “I repent”, or “I want a fresh slate” or “I want a room mate.”have exactly the same meaning—they mean she’ll seek out OM7. Isn’t it time, for you and your son, to break this cycle? What would you tell a friend to do, someone you value?
3. You are not yet writing about what you’re doing to GAL, to be a rock for your son, to make his holidays magical.