You are wise to be cautious and approach this with detachment. The monkey branchers do not like it when there is not another branch to grab onto so they retreat back home because it’s scary up there alone on the branch.
What you’re looking for is consistency for a long period of time. I’m talking months/years.
Ramp up your get a life and start to be mysterious.
Reconciling is not easy and some have suggested divorce is easier so buckle in for the long haul.
