W had a birthday on the 16th, S19 and S21 got her a card and a small gift. They sent her a text but she did not reply so S21 eventually dropped the gift off at her door a few days later. She did eventually reply "thanks, you should of knocked and came in to visit" He just replied that it was late and he didn't want to wake her. Actually he told me just doesn't want to go in her apartment.
She texted me a few days before Christmas asking if we wanted to sit with her at church for Christmas mass. I checked with S19 and he was up for it so I replied back that we would join her. S21 was out of town and couldn't attend with us. After mass she gave S19 small gift bags for him and his brother and S19 gave one to her from them in the parking lot.
She still hasn't told the boys she filed for D. I guess she's leaving that to me. Should I tell them? Or wait for her to garner the courage to do it?
I am keeping busy with GAL and had a nice Christmas visiting my family with S19.
Still standing,
Taz
Last edited by Taz; 12/28/2001:56 PM. Reason: spelling
M59 (53@BD) XW56 (50@BD) S26 (20@BD) S24 (19@BD) Married 25 (22@BD) Together 28 BD 9/29/19 (moved out unannounced while I was on fishing trip) W filed 10/19/20 (Informed me via text) D final 11/10/22
