Will update more but wanted to get your input on something.
Arranged for kids to talk to XW today.
D3 needs to use speakerphone and during the call I heard her speaking to OM.
This sort of messed with my day and I really need to keep active to not think about it.
I will probably ask XW if she intends to introduce Him to the kids.
(She has claimed he doesn’t want anything to do with them, though that was a while ago.)
I know I can’t do anything about it. But I can be a better father if I know.
Also now I feel like I’m lying to them from time to time.

Last edited by Mumin; 12/26/20 05:22 PM.
Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021