That is the pickle, holidays supercharge emotions. Only you know if you can handle that. I know myself and I wouldnt go. I could not sit there without having a "this [censored] we arent a family" look across my face at some point. If you can do it go for it. Be true to yourself though.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
