BTW, while I'm on the subject of the three year anniversary. It is also surprising to me how raw the feelings of three years ago still are. One of the things I've learned through all of this is empathy. Please know everyone reading this know that I can empathize so much with you and what you're going through. The pain is so difficult it is to the point of unbearable. Please know that no matter what happens with your marriage that it will get better. I don't want to speak for LH, but I think he'd agree with me on that much!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018