hi all! Thanks a lot for the tips! I will check the information on both the youtube channel and I will start today NMMNM!
[quote=Pack_19] W has been in touch a couple of times saying she wants to talk to me about a couple of subjects related to the kids. She always makes comments about how we should "talk about the kids" in a way that she implies it is my fault as I cannot accept our S and therefore I cannot have the relationship she expects me to have now.
No grand statements! A simple "just email your concerns and I will address them when I have some free time"
Originally Posted by Pack_19
I don't think I will be able to influence any change on her and thus saving my M.
Unfortunately, the hardest thing for you right now is to realize there's *nothing* you can actively do that will change what she's going to do. Nothing.You need to accept that, process it, surrender to it. That is the hardest part of all of this, the situation, in terms of what she does, cannot be changed by you. It's too late for that now.
Originally Posted by Pack_19
16 months since BD and at this point I am ready to be over with this, stop suffering and forgive myself. I just want the pain to fade away.
