See it for what it is

[LH19]

I think sometimes people think your harsh on here.

Some say harsh, I say honest.

I get the sense that you are a good guy.

We all harp on about actions speaking louder than words. This guy contributes only a daily basis, like I've said before, 5,700+ posts and not one thread devoted to himself. He's a good guy, blunt as fk, but a good guy.

As for my ex wife I don’t know if she broke my heart as much as disappointed me that our family wasn’t worth fighting for. That’s the part I’ll probably never get over.

This ^^^^, and I'll add to it, being hurt by the one person who was supposed to have your back.

Much apprec Bent. That’s my style. Others have different styles that work too. You have to pick through the advice and take the advice that works for you. I had to point out some things to Indy that no doubt stung but I wanted him to see his W for who she really is as a person.