See it for what it is

[OnlyBent]

I think sometimes people think your harsh on here.

Some say harsh, I say honest.

I get the sense that you are a good guy.

We all harp on about actions speaking louder than words. This guy contributes only a daily basis, like I've said before, 5,700+ posts and not one thread devoted to himself. He's a good guy, blunt as fk, but a good guy.

As for my ex wife I don’t know if she broke my heart as much as disappointed me that our family wasn’t worth fighting for. That’s the part I’ll probably never get over.

This ^^^^, and I'll add to it, being hurt by the one person who was supposed to have your back.