Just reread over that and thinking about what you said about your family wasn’t worth fighting for.
That’s wrong. Your family was worth fighting for. You said vows to a person and started a family with that person under the highest level of commitment.
That is worth fighting for man. I would argue it’s probably the relationship that is most worth fighting for. The problem is it’s a battle where two people have to be on the same side of the fight.
Unfortunately you got a bad partner and you had to not only fight that alone but you also had to lose that fight alone.
Your family was worth it, she just didn’t see it. Even if she never does it doesn’t change the fact that your family was worth it.
I know you’re a strong guy, just putting my thoughts out there.
My views on a lot of this have changed so much.
It was definitely worth it for me. My kids gave me the strength many days when I wanted to give up. I would think about them every morning when I woke up to go another round.
I have no regrets. It made me the man I am today. I’m a ten times better father, son and friend then I was prior. That I am very thankful for and wouldn’t change.
