Last conversation was nothing special. She said she didn’t know what she wanted still and I said that’s fine, it’s time for us to divorce.
She did try to push back, told me she’s not seeing OM and said that I was being unfair and giving up.
Honestly I had had enough and just shut it down. I told her I didn’t want to hear anything else and that it was done.
In the end for me, it didn’t matter if she was still seeing OM,
The problem happened 7 months ago, when she cheated.
Her first reaction should have been remorse, regret and a willingness to give her husband whatever he needed to move forward with her.
It wasn’t. It was selfishness and manipulation.
For us to have had a chance at recon it would have had to have been different from the start.
Who knows, maybe even if she started late.
But here we are 7 months later and all I’ve received is disrespect, manipulation, breadcrumbs and her ability to do what she wants regardless of how it affects others, even the one person she made a commitment too.
