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Hi Sage. I don't have a lot to add but only to encourage you in your journey and second the beautiful advice given you. You are not alone.

I'm 3 years post DDay and I was tossed and turned by the emotions of my X for a long time. I think you are strong and amazing and it sounds like you know what you need to do now. Detach.

Detaching takes time and practice. It will help you see your loved one in crisis for what they are while giving you the courage and strength necessary to have boundaries. It's also a loving thing we can do, although it doesn't always feel that way.

All my best to you. Hugs.