I told him from the very beginning that this was what I wanted, to feel like we were partners in this moving forward. I said to him yesterday, hey. I feel like we're on the same side on this for the first time, that we're partners. He gave me a strange look and said thanks for getting on board. He said he'd felt like we were partners in this this whole last time around. Not quite sure what to do with that, if it's true or if he's fooling himself. Sitting with this.
May, I know this is so painful for you ... but my thought when I read this is, at least there's a chance. I never got one. So bravo to you for keeping this option open.
Originally Posted by may22
I mean, what I really wanted, which is an intact family with an H who didn't cheat on me, is no longer on offer. No matter what happens, that will always be the truth.
Sigh. In this regard we have similar wistful desires. All I wanted was to keep my family intact too, "til death do us part."
