I mean, what I really wanted, which is an intact family with an H who didn't cheat on me, is no longer on offer. No matter what happens, that will always be the truth.
Acceptance is hard isn't it May, really hard. There is a famous quote out there that helps me deal with acceptance, think it might have been Churchill, but I might be wrong.
"You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from"
Last edited by OnlyBent; 12/19/2011:31 PM.
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"