See it for what it is

[OnlyBent]

[Look for red flags and do not ignore them. Look at her parents relationship because that means a lot.

I think this is super important. When you meet someone you fall head over heels with and you are young, it is so easy to ignore those red flags. Once something like this happens, they seem to stick out like sore thumbs, so obvious in hindsight. Its ok to make a mistake once, its not ok to make the same mistake twice.