Hello, Mo. I became a DBer four months ago and all I will say is this. Stay in touch with us on a regular basis, it really helps. Also, GAL and begin working on your 180s; these apply whether you are trying to hold the R together or moving on. Just putting my 180s down on paper on posting them here made for some productive (and spirited) discussion. Even of one's ex is a MLA, we all have 180s to work on.
