Thanks WF... it feels different. Good, different. I'm skeptical though. I want to sit with this for a few weeks and see if I still feel like this come January.
I told him from the very beginning that this was what I wanted, to feel like we were partners in this moving forward. I said to him yesterday, hey. I feel like we're on the same side on this for the first time, that we're partners. He gave me a strange look and said thanks for getting on board. He said he'd felt like we were partners in this this whole last time around. Not quite sure what to do with that, if it's true or if he's fooling himself. Sitting with this.
Originally Posted by LH19
So I have been thinking about your situation and am going to throw this out there. Is it possible the that you were is this fight to keep your family together and once you succeed you realized that part of the package isn’t really all that great after all?
Yes. of course.
I think Oceangirl talked about on her thread feeling like there was no good choice? Just $hitty and $hitttier? I have definitely felt that. I mean, what I really wanted, which is an intact family with an H who didn't cheat on me, is no longer on offer. No matter what happens, that will always be the truth.
I meant him more as a the person he is now and not what he did in the past.
