If you would-- I'd be super interested to hear more about your thought processes around deciding to end your own affair, detangling yourself from the OW, etc. I know you came to this board as an LBS but we don't get many WHs around here and your perspective on that side would be really interesting.
Really happy for you and thanks for coming back to share!
Best,
May
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing