SD,

So here’s is what I believe. Life will present you with people and opportunities to show you where you are not free. In essence grow or suffer. What’s you get that then life becomes easy. You are suffering right now because you want your wife to be something that she is not right now. It a nutshell you are living in as much in a fantasy world then she is right now. So the question is do you want to grow or do you want to suffer?