Kml: XH hasn't talked to D4 in awhile, and I'm very careful not to talk about certain things when she's within earshot, so no chance of her overhearing anything. She associates Christmas with him coming home.
DnJ: I like what you said for a reply to D4, "That’s a good question. I don’t know when Dad is planning on coming home. I’ll ask him".
That's kind of how I've been steering the conversation, but haven't added the asking dad part.
As much as I want to reach out and have a conversation with XH about certain things, I'm afraid he'll just come out swinging with questions about my plans for the house. Guess I could always say that I'd like to address D4 , and just dismiss everything else, for the moment.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever