it every part of me wants to call out all her BS and let her know I know what's going on and I'm not going to put up with it.
Why are you putting up with it?
It goes back to whether or not to confront her with it all vs. just moving on and focusing 100% on me. Looking at the responses in this thread there still isn't a clear cut answer. Some say it will just make her get better at hiding things, others say it is needed to push things forward to the inevitable.
Originally Posted by SaltyDog
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by SaltyDog
it every part of me wants to call out all her BS and let her know I know what's going on and I'm not going to put up with it.
Why are you putting up with it?
It goes back to whether or not to confront her with it all vs. just moving on and focusing 100% on me. Looking at the responses in this thread there still isn't a clear cut answer. Some say it will just make her get better at hiding things, others say it is needed to push things forward to the inevitable.
So first off I agree you should wait until after Christmas. Second SD you have to decide what you’re more comfortable with death by 1,000 paper cuts or have your head chopped off. I have the gift of hindsight to pass on to new posters. 99% of the WWs aren’t worth standing for you just can’t see it right now. You won’t confront right now because you’re not strong enough. You can’t even ignore one text from her. That’s ok. I understand. What I am trying to say is you will regret not taking my advice a couple years from now. That I can guarantee.
