Making the best of the mess.

[97Hope]

((((Blu))) HI!!! I am not ready to date. I am still working through grief stages and all that entails. I am not lonely for the most part, I've been used to being on my own even while married.

I have noticed a couple of attractive men, but am just not interested. Still trying to let go of the X so I think it's better to just wait.

You helped me so much it's time I share what I can!! I know that it will be difficult for some of the newbies to hear that I'm now divorced, but I have zero regrets! (I can't say the same for XH although I don't ever talk to him anymore, unless it's at the kids and we don't talk about stuff).

I did finally conquer 'going dark' but it was not a pretty or seamless process. In fact, X texted a pic last week about how I organized the Christmas decorations in storage and I just completely ignored it. Even up to a month ago, I would entertain his attempts to communicate and that got me in trouble. (as in, we were at a mutual party and I slept with him) yikes! (about 3 months ago).

I'm going to start looking at the newcomers page and see where I an offer support, as you and so many did for me.

I am on the other side, mostly, still have some tough days, but GAL was what I had to do and it saved my life.