Couple's coaching?

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Most of the threads seem to be about coaching one spouse on how to win the other one back. Are their trained counselors for either in person visits or phone consultation who are Michelle-Trained who can help us both? We don't believe traditional counseling works, so if it is just "so tell me how things are going" to start the conversation each session and then we list our grievances with each other and feel worse after each session, we've been there. At the same time, we need to take personal responsibility for each of our behaviors. One of us can't be wrong all the time and be the one blamed. Thank you!