P.S. If you do HAVE to confront, do not turn it into a discussion. Simply tell her "I know what is going on." She will pry, ask you for details, etc. Do not give in. Leave it at "I know". Then get busy DBing.
Also, if you do confront, do so without expectations. Most LBSs think that confronting a cheating spouse will be like catching a child in the act of disobedience. That they will be sorry and open to your lecture about doing it anymore. WASs/WSs are not like that. They might be sorry they got caught, but they will continue to lie in the face of evidence. They will continue to deny like there is no tomorrow. They will turn the tables on you: "You've be snooping on me?!? HOW DARE YOU!" (As if snooping on a spouse is somehow worse than cheating on your spouse! HA!) It never goes the way you expect it to.
So if you think she will have a big "come to Jesus" moment when you confront you will be sorely disappointed.
Last edited by Steve85; 12/17/2005:16 PM.
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