I thought it was frowned upon? Reading through other threads I saw a lot of recommendations not to confront or do things along those lines and to just keep eating sh!t sandwiches.
Usually, the person doing the confronting gives speeches about how they won’t tolerate an EA or PA but then fail to take action. They look weaker and less attractive than ever. Then there are the people who are wrong or uncertain about an OM, who add snooping and paranoia to their list of issues. Confrontation requires some certainty and hard actions.
I would add that it isn't a choice between confronting and eating crap sandwiches. You can NOT do both.
Confronting is pressure and pursuit. Refusing to eat crap sandwiches is standing up for yourself appropriately when you are faced with disrespectful behavior.
See, LBS will twist DBing into being an excuse for what they want to do. Deep down you want to confront, even if it is not the best option. So you will trick yourself into that being the way you DB. Do not trick yourself this way SD. Back off, give her time and space. Focus on yourself and your kids. Get better at GAL.
The LBSs we see here that struggle the most are the LBSs that do the worst job at GAL.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
