I thought it was frowned upon? Reading through other threads I saw a lot of recommendations not to confront or do things along those lines and to just keep eating sh!t sandwiches.
Usually, the person doing the confronting gives speeches about how they won’t tolerate an EA or PA but then fail to take action. They look weaker and less attractive than ever. Then there are the people who are wrong or uncertain about an OM, who add snooping and paranoia to their list of issues. Confrontation requires some certainty and hard actions.
