But now, as other have noted, it was most likely to check off "I tried counseling" off her list.
Mine went with the intention of using it to learn to separate and co-parent amicably. I hope you find it helpful going along solo. And keep going Salty, trust me that it does get easier. Like anything, effort gets results.
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"
