Originally Posted by tom_h
What do I do to ensure that she doesn't fall into that trap? Thanks for comments.
Like steve85 said, it is a chicken and egg problem. I definitely relate.

Men are microwaves. Women are crockpots. It is all the little interactions that make the difference. Building up the sexual tension over the course of time. Consistently behaving in attractive ways. Men are typically seduced by the visual. Woman by the verbal. My behavior and my words are extremely important.

As the man, I am in charge of the sex and romance department. Her decrease in desire typical correlates to my decrease in attention, romance and/or seduction. Flirting and teasing and making her laugh. Helping her relax. Listening with undivided attention to her stories. Even if that is for 5 minutes between tasks at the house.


Right now, you can build a solid foundation. I was reading anything and everything.


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