Roger, Scout. But I am a bit touchy about this now. If I reply to someone else's comment about sex, the ire comes at me, not at the one who originally made it! Also, I did not imply what Steve said. I even qualified my comment! I was asking for perspective. So, please, empathy (and careful reading) both ways?
I don't see where he implied that you said it. He saw something interesting to him, and he commented on it. Also, I didn't feel ire coming from him. Again, just a response to something he found interesting. I'm not one to pile on, but you give off an aura of being thin-skinned. My XW was like that. She took things that weren't even remotely critical and felt criticized--which is probably why I always walked on egg shells around her. With all due respect, it might be something worth working on.
I've tried to see your point of view. I've praised your vulnerability. I've empathized with your post regarding the sexual desire gap. I hope you take this the right way--because I value a lot of what you bring up and would like to see you continue to post and continue to better yourself. We all have negative personality traits that we can work on.
