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Originally Posted by tom_h
Originally Posted by harvey
Most men feel love through sex. No matter what the woman says, if there isn't consistent intimacy, the man doesn't feel loved. Most women need to feel loved to have/want sex.

Good insight and not something talked about much. There is a variant of that, and I'm risking the ire of some women perhaps, but it goes like this. "Men use love to get sex, women use sex to get love." [b]Now before the fire alarms go off, let me say that the point is worth pondering. Not all women and men of course. But maybe applicable in a lot of situations. And how does a couple work through that?

Sounds like you stand by it. I'm not judging you I was seeking clarification. Tom I just don't happen to agree with you.