No worries mate!

Try listening to some Led Zeppelin stuff for British sex rock. Most of their tracks feature very long throbbing buildups to a crescendo that includes rhythmic "Ahh, Ahhh, Ahhhh, Ahhhhh" followed by a tail out of "Baby, Baby.., Baby..."
Listen to "Dazed and Confused". Lyrics you will identify with and a feeling of unrelenting, agonising, unrequited desire. If ever there was a theme tune for SSM this is it.
SD